Sometimes what we think of as fallacious may not be to those who were raised in an environment where it is acceptable. How can someone be wrong when it's all they've ever known? How can you judge someone if you have never been in their situation? How do you live when what you loved most is removed from your life? We judge before being fully aware. From the outside looking in, things can be quite deceiving. You may think you know, but until you have experienced the struggles, the sacrifices, the tears, the losses, the violence, and the fight for your life, you have no idea.